Monday, September 6, 2010

bear

I miss you more than usual tonight
I don't know why I just do.
I don't like this feeling at all maybe its because
I know this deployment is coming to anend
in just a matter of a few months?
maybe because I haven't seen you smile and dimples
or maybe I because I haven't physically felt you in so long?
Through this deployment I have listened to a few songs and one of them 
caught my attention. Here is the verse.
"Life's a dance you learn as you go sometimes you lead sometimes you follow don't worry
about what you don't know life's a dance you learn as you go."
 It's so true take a minute to reflect on this and see what comes to mind
ask others what they think?
What it means to me is life is one big learning experience when your younger
your parents teach you the best you can, but as you get older you go into this world
with just the knowledge you have been taught and nothing more. As you grow you will be knocked 
down but you pick your self up and go back for more. As time goes by your knowledge will grow
you may have to crawl even after you walk.
Take chances in life be daring at times try new things.
You have to give if you want to receive. Just like there is a time and a place and a time
to talk and a time to listen. You never know what life has instore for you
so live it the way you want. Be happy in life don't be so serious all the time laugh
at times when others don't be that person who laughs out loud. Be that person when others 
are wearing all black you wear white. Be the opposite stand up for yourself and your beliefs.
Be unique and be an individual but most of all believe in yourself.
Mama Wilson xoxo
 

4 comments:

Goodnight moon said...

Ahh...I hate all the sad nights:( Sending you hugs!!!! I love that song too! The words are amazing. As I was reading it on your blog, I was singing it in my head.

I just read your guest post over at Jordan's blog. Loved your love story!!!!!

You need to grab my Deployment Survivor button!

Anonymous said...

Just stopping by from Southern Hospitality. Your love story is absolutely *too* sweet for words.

I'm an older military wife (The Hubs has almost 16 years in) but I still love hearing about the sweet stories of the younger ladies. I'm a fan!

As for deployment being over (I'm assuming this is your first deployment?), just be sure to give him his space. It's tough for them coming home, and I don't think they quite get how much anticipation WE have, and how we want everything perfect, and at the same time, they just want to crash and sleep. It can be disconcerting at first, but you can make it work for you.

Hang in there, hon!

Unknown said...

Amber thank you I am glad you liked my post! Bear can be a hopeless romantic at points! And yes ma'am I will certainly have to grab your Deployment button! I can't wait to post it so I can officially say "I kicked deployment ass!"

Unknown said...

Hey Candy so happy you enjoyed the post I am glad you are a fan! Wohoo! I appreciate that words of knowledge! And same goes for you too I love hearing stories about the older wives story I must say is one of my favorite things to do when it comes from others!