Bullying, highschool fights., teen trends, and music?

BULLYING?

HIGHSCHOOL FIGHTS?

TEEN TREDNS?

MUSIC?

What comes to mind when you think of those 4 things? When I think of bullying and fighting I am sick and I mean sick to my stomach. When I think about the things that teenagers are wearing now a day I think "where are your parents, do you know what message your sending out?" And not to mention the music of today, is just down rite dirty and wrong! I was bullied as a kid because I wasnt "skinny" and I wore "glasses". I remeber in elementary school I was called a "FAT PIG" and "FOUR EYES". I remember the tears and the hurt when this was said to me. I remember him being part of the "cool crowd." I think back now that these kids couldn't have been more than 9 or 10 years old. How can these kids be so cruel and use language like this? Now that I see kids are KILLING themselves because of being bullied is so wrong and so heart wrenching. Its not fair to them or the families. YOU don't know what was going on with them, YOU don't know the life stroy behind them. Maybe they were just looking for a simple hello or a friend perhaps. Maybe they could of saved his/her life instead of pushing them so far to comit suicide. I've made damn sure to not judge or bully someone, and Ive made damn sure to be a friend, and to help those in need. It should be human nature to do so in my opinion. When will this stop will it ever?

I saw a video on FACEBOOK that had two teenage boys beating the hell out of eachother! I was in shock and sick to my stomach. All these kids were standing around cheering it on instead of going to get help or trying to stop it. Where are the parents? Where are the teachers? Wheres the common sense? Does fighting put you on a petal stool? Does it make you "cool" does it make you feel on top of the world? If it does something needs to be done. I hope when they look back on this one day they will think what fools they looked like. How badly they hurt not only themselves but the other person involved! In this world there are MANY other ways to solving a problem rather than throwing blows at one another. What if that kid you were hitting was for no reason. What if he couldn't defend himself and he actually ended up getting seriously injured or worse dead. What joy comes from that. What good comes from possibly going to jail? No good in my eyes. Again something needs to be done!

As I was walking around I saw a group of girls with boobs hanging out bra straps showing skirts and shorts that barely cover ANYTHING! I saw a group of boys who have there pants to the ground with there underwear hanging out and nasty sayings on there shirts! I don't get it why? Is it the "cool crowd" thing again? Does it make you feel on top of the world looking like this? Morals where are they? Self respect where is it? Holding yourself at a standard gone. It doesn't help with all the sex on t.v. and seeing even ADULTS dress like this! What message are they trying to send. I got a message loud and clear in my mind of what it meant! Maybe Im wrong for feeling this but your still a child not a 21 year old! Again where are the parent something needs to be done!

Now music. HOLY COW the music thats on the radio... REALLY? I grew up on classic rock oldies and lots of country! Im an all the way country lover. I tuned into a wrap hip hop station today and couldn't believe my ears! All the music now a days is about sex drugs money and alachol. Again is this part of the "cool crowd".  Some lyrics I wanted to share with you NOW MIND YOU THEY ARE GRAPHIC.. HERE WE GO!

"I'm st-stacking my paper my wallet look like a bible
I got girlies half naked that shit look like the grotto
How your waist anorexic and then your ass is colossal, whoop
Drop that ass make it boomerang
Take my belt off bitch I'm Pootie Tang
Tippy tow tippy tay you gonna get a tip today
Fuck that you gonna get some dick today
I walk in with my crew and I'm breaking they necks
I'm looking all good I'm making her wet
They pay me respect they pay me in checks
And if she look good she pay me in sex, do it
Bounce that ass it's the roundest
You the best you deserve a crown bitch
Right on that"

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What in the world? Is it just me or am I crazy? These kids are anywhere from 10 to adult listening to this music! What good is this doing for such young minds? What message are they getting? If I were a parent my kids would NOT be listening to music of such! Again Where are the parents, something needs to be done. I can also say I was a teenager not very long ago and kids do what they want against authority! When they are alone with friends and at partys this what they do its whats "IN" right now..... My oh my I hope they don't fall for this in the realistic life they have to face one day! Because it may be fun now but once your own your own you need to use all your judgment you have!

Always, ME xoxox